I know my heart will never be the same/ But I'm telling myself I'll be okay/ Even on my weakest days/ I get a little bit stronger.... Oh man strong words to live by. They say divorce is only second to death of a spouse. I think they are right on the money. The life you had is gone. The partner you thought you had is gone and on both sides there is so much hurt it is hard to face most days. It's one thing to say, "I just want the kids to be safe and happy." AND it is quite the other to negotiate through the hurt and feelings to make it happen. UGHHHH. I wish we had the gift of hindsight in the beforehand. I know full of contradictions. That seems to be me right now. Sad that things are the way the are but wouldn't do one thing at this point to change a darn thing. I guess just one of those things that you have to work through and come to a point of acceptance. Doesn't matter who is at fault or who did what just need to come to final closure and move forward. Just sucks!
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